Thanks for sharing your positive reaction to the B&C DE250 which I've been tempted to try.
FWIW, I briefly had a chance to listen to the cheaper and smaller brother, B&C DE10 + the Lycan3R aluminum WP12024s crossed around 3-4 kHz and was quite impressed by the lack of harshness, very smooth and airy overtones. I've tried a couple of modern drivers that induced fatigue even when crossed that high.
J-Rob also said good things about
polyester diaphragmed B&C drivers (#46).